Rape is not like most crimes. It is quiet, living in the shadows of children’s bedrooms, in the alleyways of city streets and in the subtle bonds of committed relationships.
Girls aged 16 to 19 are four times more likely than the general population to become victims of rape, attempted rape or sexual assault.
The topic is taboo and only discussed in whispers. Just because it is not talked about, though, doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. This compilation of photos stands as a message.
Rape happens, and it happens to many high schoolers here. Just as frightening: 15 out of 16 rapists will never spend a day in jail.
These photos are in recognizable Rock Bridge locations to show that this issue is slinking along within our halls. Each person wrote what was said to him or her right before the crime was committed against; some images show how the victim felt afterward.
The people in these photos are not identified because it is not just these seven brave individuals that are important. They will remain faceless because this crime does not discriminate. It happens to every age, sex and race.
“When someone has been raped, that person has to work through so many incredibly painful and difficult emotions: shame, anger, guilt, regret.” RBHS Crisis Counselor Leslie Kersha said. “That person has to learn how to trust again. It isn’t easy to begin to work through these emotions and to begin to heal, but it is incredibly important for a rape survivor to realize that he or she is not alone and to utilize a support system.”
By Maria Kalaitzandonakes
[nggallery id=52] If, and most likely when, you are confronted by a friend or family member dealing with this problem, or you are dealing with it yourself, take action. Here are numbers you can call.
Contact the National Sexual Violence Resource Center toll free at 877.739.3895.
Contact the Abuse Rape Shelter Hotline in Columbia, MO at 573-875-1370.
Girls aged 16 to 19 are four times more likely than the general population to become victims of rape, attempted rape or sexual assault.
The topic is taboo and only discussed in whispers. Just because it is not talked about, though, doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. This compilation of photos stands as a message.
Rape happens, and it happens to many high schoolers here. Just as frightening: 15 out of 16 rapists will never spend a day in jail.
These photos are in recognizable Rock Bridge locations to show that this issue is slinking along within our halls. Each person wrote what was said to him or her right before the crime was committed against; some images show how the victim felt afterward.
The people in these photos are not identified because it is not just these seven brave individuals that are important. They will remain faceless because this crime does not discriminate. It happens to every age, sex and race.
“When someone has been raped, that person has to work through so many incredibly painful and difficult emotions: shame, anger, guilt, regret.” RBHS Crisis Counselor Leslie Kersha said. “That person has to learn how to trust again. It isn’t easy to begin to work through these emotions and to begin to heal, but it is incredibly important for a rape survivor to realize that he or she is not alone and to utilize a support system.”
By Maria Kalaitzandonakes
[nggallery id=52] If, and most likely when, you are confronted by a friend or family member dealing with this problem, or you are dealing with it yourself, take action. Here are numbers you can call.
Contact the National Sexual Violence Resource Center toll free at 877.739.3895.
Contact the Abuse Rape Shelter Hotline in Columbia, MO at 573-875-1370.
Publius • Feb 22, 2012 at 4:35 pm
Amazing pictures. A good reminder to treat everyone kindly because you don’t know what they’re dealing with.
Emily Smith • Feb 9, 2012 at 2:51 pm
Thank you so much for sharing! This is such a powerful story. Thank you for making us all realise that this impacts people we know.
Brett Stover • Feb 9, 2012 at 1:39 pm
Wow. This story is very striking and powerful. I would never have thought that this has happened to so many people. Thanks for the incredible story and pictures.
Catey T. • Feb 9, 2012 at 11:14 am
Maria, this is amazing. As noted, the photos are incredibly powerful but the story is really, really well done, too. Just the kind of information we all need to know. I am really proud of you.
amy enderle • Feb 9, 2012 at 9:01 am
moving. powerful. haunting.
my congratulations and appreciation to the writer: the project shows amazing vision and tremendous implementation. you are a conversation starter in the very best sense, and a story teller in the most meaningful of ways.
and, too, my appreciation and love to those who shared these stories: you are strong, and courageous. you are important. you are making a difference.
thank you for this.
Jude El Buri • Feb 9, 2012 at 9:00 am
Maria, this is a brilliant story and so are the pictures. I’m amazed at how you so eloquently wrote about such a sensitive topic and informed people of it.
Jen Lee Reeves • Feb 8, 2012 at 11:57 pm
This is so brave. Thank you for making this project happen. The simplicity breaks my heart.
Maria • Feb 8, 2012 at 11:20 pm
thank you all! these people were incredibly strong and i am very proud to tell their story.
Shannon Freese • Feb 8, 2012 at 9:13 pm
I love this story, Maria. It really lived up to your idea of it.
Muhammad Al-Rawi • Feb 8, 2012 at 8:35 pm
I greatly admire the way you brought light to such a dark topic.
The idea of the photos is absolutely brilliant.
Jennie Wang-Hall • Feb 8, 2012 at 7:44 pm
I just wanted to say that I am incredibly proud of and inspired by the students who were part of this. I graduated from RB in 2006 and am now working on my PhD in Counseling Psychology. My area of specialization is working with survivors of trauma. Initiatives like this, that lessen the stigma and shame out of sexual abuse, are incredibly important. Keep up the good work RB journalists!!
Trish • Feb 8, 2012 at 6:00 pm
Amazing story. Can’t believe this happened to so many people at RBHS, and there’re probably even more here. I hope they all know none of it is their fault and they have a lot of people willing to listen to them.
Anon E. Mouse • Feb 8, 2012 at 2:01 pm
Powerful story and photographs.